A spell of vindictiveness and forgiveness Human nature is often characterized by a mixture of emotions and behaviors, and two of the most contrasting ones are vindictiveness and forgiveness. Vindictiveness refers to the desire for revenge or the infliction of harm on others as a response to perceived wrongs or injustices. On the other hand, forgiveness entails letting go of grudges, resentments, and the need for retaliation. Both emotions have the power to shape our relationships and impact our overall well-being. Vindictiveness can be seen as a natural response to feelings of anger, betrayal, or hurt. When someone wrongs us, it is only human to desire justice and to want the wrongdoer to suffer the same pain we felt.
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The following is a list of suggested places to start your Magick learning and is more aimed at a General introduction to Magick than a deep and exhaustive look at Occult thought. At our bookshop, you ll find a diverse collection of titles that explore the principles and practices of chaos magic, including how to design and perform effective rituals, how to incorporate chaos magic into your daily life, and more.
When someone wrongs us, it is only human to desire justice and to want the wrongdoer to suffer the same pain we felt. This desire for revenge might manifest itself in various ways, such as spreading rumors, seeking legal action, or actively seeking opportunities to harm the other person. However, indulging in vindictiveness often leads to a vicious cycle of retaliation, where both parties continue to hurt each other without finding any resolution or closure.
A primer on chaos magic
Anyone who has visited the Justin Building while it’s full of teenagers, music, and strange games can attest to the fact that it has its own brand of magic. In the outside world, this magic can also be called “chaos.”
This summer has been full of this specific magic. In fact, we just returned from a weeklong mission trip based at Lyle Lodge, during which we sweat profusely, did good work around the community, and may or may not have taken a tree to the face. Prior to that, 39 middle schoolers took over the Justin, played with kids, and did some intense weed pulling. Even before that, we took a group of teenagers to Camp Barnabas in Purdy, Missouri, to hang out with some incredible special needs kids for a week. Relaxing summer, right?
Our summer theme was centered around the Sermon on the Mount and the particular section I was given to speak on dealt with storing up your treasures in heaven rather than Earth. My lovely co-worker/friend Matt defined it to me as “pieces of heaven,” and it stuck. Throughout these trips, I was reminded why the Youth Group has always been my piece of heaven. By this, I mean the people within the Justin who make it come alive–the teenagers. They are loud, tend to get into things they’re not supposed to, and on more than one occasion have made me sigh and say, “This might as well happen.” They are also, however, full of selflessness, humor, and boundless love. Experiencing them as a teenager in the Youth Group myself was one thing, but being able to come back and see them from an older, more outside perspective has been an unexpected gift. After spending nearly an entire month with anywhere from five to approximately 40 youths at a time, I can honestly say I’ve never met such an incredible group of people.
There are middle schoolers whose rowdiness and already tight-knit bond remind me of my own first years in the Youth Group, as well as freshmen and sophomores who are just stepping up into leadership for the younger kids. The group I can say with confidence I am the most proud of, however, is the juniors and seniors who I knew as little middle schoolers when I was graduating. They are brilliant, kind, and probably some of the funniest people I know. Getting to come back and see how much they’ve grown has been one of my favorite parts of this job, as well as a perfect example of what the Justin brings out of people–the generosity, empathy, and love that comes from being a piece of heaven. All that chaos, the magic that inhabits this place, is unique to middle and high school kids. At my university, we have a saying: “From the outside looking in, you can’t understand it; from the inside looking out, you can’t explain it.” I’ve found that’s the most apt description of the Justin and the people within it.
I have cherished my time here and look forward to when I am next able to experience some of that signature Justin Building magic. Until then, I will hold on to the fact that all the eggs are broken, grab some emergency Cheez-Its, and continue to celebrate Alpha Chad.
The following is a list of suggested places to start your Magick learning and is more aimed at a General introduction to Magick than a deep and exhaustive look at Occult thought. The list will obviously show a bias to authors and ideas that I naturally gravitate towards, but I still think it will serve as a great starting point.
It can become a toxic mindset that consumes a significant amount of time and energy, preventing personal growth and fostering negativity within ourselves. On the contrary, forgiveness is an act of compassion and understanding. It involves letting go of resentment and choosing to move on from past transgressions. Forgiveness is not about condoning or forgetting the wrongdoing, but rather about freeing ourselves from the burden of anger and pain. When we forgive, we release ourselves from the negativity that stems from holding grudges. Moreover, forgiveness has been associated with numerous psychological and physical benefits, including reduced stress, improved mental health, and enhanced relationships. By offering forgiveness, we create a space for healing and reconciliation, allowing both parties to move forward and grow. However, forgiveness is not always an easy feat to accomplish. It requires humility, empathy, and self-reflection. Sometimes, the pain we experience may feel too deep and forgiving may seem impossible. It is important to acknowledge the validity of our emotions and allow ourselves to heal at our own pace. Seeking support from loved ones or professional therapists can be instrumental in the forgiveness process. Self-compassion plays a crucial role as well, as it enables us to learn from the past and create a more positive future. In conclusion, vindictiveness and forgiveness represent two opposing ends of the emotional spectrum. While vindictiveness arises from feelings of anger and the desire for justice, forgiveness stems from compassion and the willingness to let go of resentment. Although vindictiveness may satisfy an immediate need for revenge, it can perpetuate a cycle of destruction. Forgiveness, on the other hand, leads to personal growth, improved relationships, and overall well-being. While forgiveness may be challenging to achieve, it is a powerful tool that holds the potential to heal and bring peace. By fostering forgiveness within ourselves, we contribute to building a more compassionate and understanding world..
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